Routine, Routine, Routine...

Hey guys! It's me again. And if you are someone who has Autism, like yours truly, or if you're a parent with a child with Autism, then this topic will be very relatable. I'll try my best to keep this as simple and understandable as possible.

Today, I'm talking about routines and how routines affect lives with Autism in the mix. Here's the thing: routine is the MOST IMPORTANT, I repeat, MOST IMPORTANT, thing in an Autistic person's life. Everyone should have some sort of routine, like getting up for work, going to school, eating food, ect., but a routine is what Autistic people depend on to help them learn the basics of living and how to make it through this world. I don't remember having a routine when I was younger, which I'm pretty sure I did, but I think mine was more verbal than visual. I think that has helped me learn how to do certain things by myself. Things like brushing my hair, knowing how to shower/bathe, brushing my teeth, getting dressed, stuff like that.

I do think that Autistic people should have a routine. You know those little lists with the simple shapes and stick figures in a box that Autistic people use? I've used that and trust me when I say this: they help. Autistic people learn and think by using pictures. I feel that I cannot do something unless I have someone show me how the first time. Using pictures and visuals will help the person with Autism better understand the daily routines they have to partake in. It's not only needed at the home, but I strongly feel that this method should be used in schools across America. It will help the children and adults with Autism understand what they need to do, what is allowed in school, what not to do at school, rewards, punishments, what to do during drills, where to go, stuff like that. I also feel like it should be allowed in the workforce, with Autistic adults going to work who need some guidance as to what to do, what not to do, where to go, and stuff like that.

I may be young right now, but throughout my life, I'm going to try to make these last two things happen. It's so crucial for someone with Autism to have a set routine or two. One slight, tiny change will set them off and they go into a meltdown. Trust me, I've done that before and I know what it feels like; it's not pretty. If Autistic children have a routine at home and school/work, it will help them understand and function better.

Well, that's what I have to say on that. I hope I made this as understandable as possible. I hope you enjoyed reading this blog.